Weddings

Choose Your Wedding Experience

Simply Yours

Single Day

Full day rental 8am - 11pm
1 hour rehersal
Getting-ready suite
2 restrooms
Use of all outdoor space
Fully-equipped kitchen
One time set up & breakdown of tables and chairs

$4,500

For couples who want a beautiful, intentional day rooted in simplicity

Memorable Manor

Wedding Weekend

For couples who want a beautiful, intentional day rooted in simplicity

Friday 12pm - Sunday 12pm
All amenities from Single Day package
Linens
Outdoor Heaters
Secondary event setup (rehearsal dinner, farewell brunch, etc.)
Multiple getting-ready spaces
Honeymoon Suite + Lodging for up to 10 additional guests

$7,000

For couples who value connection, comfort, and having everything they truly need

Effortless Day

All-Inclusive Experience

Friday 12pm - Sunday 12pm
All amenities from Wedding Weekend package
Wedding Day Management
Catering (up to 100 guests)
Bartending
Florist
DJ
Photographer*
Content Creation*
Desserts*
Tent*

More About All-Inclusive Packages

$22,000 - $32,000*

For couples who want ease, indulgence, and the full experience for their once-in-a-lifetime moments

Event Space Details:

• 600 square foot ballroom

• Dining room where food can be displayed and served

• Auxiliary room for serving drinks

• Back foyer for guest’s jackets and table for gifts

• Two bathrooms

• Fully-equipped kitchen on second floor

Supplies Included with All Packages:

• Up to fifteen (15) 60” round tables (seats 8 guests each)

• Up to five (5) 60' rectangular tables

• Up to six (6) cocktail tables

• Up to 120 white folding chairs

Lodging Accommodations

(Single-day package excluded):

• The Loft— 1200 sq. ft. Honeymoon suite on 3rd floor; Features a king bed, full kitchen, & large bathroom with soaking tub

• The Brooklyn— Bedroom on 2nd floor with king bed & private bathroom

• The Atlantic— Bedroom on 2nd floor with queen bed, twin trundle & private or shared bathroom

• The Carriage House— Two-story unit behind the main house. Features a queen bed, queen sleeper sofa, kitchen & bathroom

• The Gardener’s Cabin— One-story unit behind the main house. Features a queen bed & private bathroom. Dog-friendly!

Already booked your ceremony and reception at another venue?

No problem!

We can make your wedding day MUCH Easier and more Luxurious with our Event Headquarters Package:

Learn More

Important Wedding Weekend Information

VA Sales tax will be added to total
A 25% non-refundable deposit is required to reserve your date. Additional payments made 6 months and 3 months prior to event date.
$1,000 refundable security deposit due 30 days before check-in date (paid via cash or check only).
The security deposit will be returned within 14 business days of the event per no damages to the property
Cash, checks, money orders, Venmo and debit/credit cards are all accepted
Event liability insurance (~ $100) is required for wedding receptions - If serving alcohol, Host Liquor Liability must be added
An ABC banquet license (~ $55) will be required for wedding receptions serving alcohol
A rental agreement must be signed for your event weekend
Outside vendors welcome; caterers, bartender, and planners must be licensed and insured
There is a two night minimum on weekend packages. No exceptions. Additional nights can be added!
Receive a discount if you also book the wedding shower at Bent Oaks Manor

Request Your Date

Choose Your Wedding Experience

Effortless Day

All-Inclusive Experience

Friday 12pm - Sunday 12pm
All amenities from Wedding Weekend package
Wedding Day Management
Catering (up to 100 guests)
Bartending
Florist
DJ
Photographer*
Content Creation*
Desserts*
Tent*

More About All-Inclusive Packages

$22,000 - $32,000*

Memorable Manor

Wedding Weekend

Friday 12pm - Sunday 12pm
All amenities from Single Day package
Hotel Room Block Reservations
Secondary event setup (rehearsal dinner, farewell brunch, etc.)
Multiple getting-ready spaces
Honeymoon Suite + Lodging for up to 10 additional guests
Outdoor Heaters
Linens

$7,000

Simply Yours

Single Day

Full day rental 8am - 11pm
1 hour rehersal
Getting-ready suite
2 restrooms
Use of all outdoor space
Fully-equipped kitchen
One time set up & breakdown of tables and chairs

$4,500

For couples who want ease, indulgence, and the full experience for their once-in-a-lifetime moments

For couples who value connection, comfort, and having everything they truly need

For couples who want a beautiful, intentional day rooted in simplicity

Event Space Details:

• 600 square foot ballroom

• Dining room where food can be displayed and served

• Auxiliary room for serving drinks

• Back foyer for guest’s jackets and table for gifts

• Two bathrooms

• Fully-equipped kitchen on second floor

Supplies Included with All Packages:

• Up to fifteen (15) 60” round tables (seats 8 guests each)

• Up to five (5) 60' rectangular tables

• Up to six (6) cocktail tables

• Up to 120 white folding chairs

Lodging Accommodations (Single-day package excluded):

• The Loft— 1200 sq. ft. Honeymoon suite on 3rd floor; Features a king bed, full kitchen, & large bathroom with soaking tub

• The Brooklyn— Bedroom on 2nd floor with king bed & private bathroom

• The Atlantic— Bedroom on 2nd floor with queen bed, twin trundle & private or shared bathroom

• The Carriage House— Two-story unit behind the main house. Features a queen bed, queen sleeper sofa, kitchen & bathroom

• The Gardener’s Cabin— One-story unit behind the main house. Features a queen bed & private bathroom. Dog-friendly!

Request Your Date

Create Your

Perfect Day

Weddings don't have to be overwhelming!

With so many details to arrange, finding a venue that’s beautiful, easy to plan with, and fits your budget can be tough!- especially when you’re still deciding on things like the best time of year to get married or how large your guest list should be.

At Bent Oaks Manor, we can handle everything from the beautiful backdrops to the bartender—so you can focus on what matters most: enjoying every special moment before, during, and after the ceremony.

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Already booked your ceremony and reception at another venue?

No problem!

We can make your wedding day MUCH Easier and more Luxurious with our Event Headquarters Package:

Learn More

Bent oaks manor is made for weddings

Gorgeous Backdrops for Photos

Imagine taking photos in our lush gardens, under crystal chandeliers, or in front of our beautiful victorian entryway. Bent Oaks Manor provides dozens of unique spots to make your photos as memorable as your day.

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On-Site Lodging

Having the bride/groom, their families, AND the wedding party able to spend the night on-site before and/or after the wedding ceremony saves SO MUCH time! (not to mention expense). It also makes it easier to create the kind of relaxed, connected atmosphere couples often want in smaller, intimate weddings.

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Vendor Flexibility

Many venues force you to hire vendors whom the venue either employs or has a contract with. We give you complete freedom in choosing any vendor you like! (as long as they meet safety requirements). Couples who’ve planned at other venues often say that vendor restrictions are one of the things they regret having to deal with most.

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Create Your

Perfect Day

Weddings can feel overwhelming!

With so many details to arrange, finding a venue that’s beautiful, easy to plan with, and fits your budget can be tough!

At Bent Oaks Manor, we can handle everything from the beautiful backdrops to the bartender—so you can focus on what matters most: enjoying every special moment.

Bent oaks manor is made for weddings!

Gorgeous Backdrops

for Photos

Take A Virtual Tour

On-Site Lodging

Having the bride/groom, their families, AND the wedding party able to spend the night on-site before and/or after the wedding ceremony saves SO MUCH time! (not to mention expense).

See Our Rooms

Vendor Flexibility

Many venues force you to hire vendors whom the venue either employs or has a contract with. We give you complete freedom in choosing any vendor you like! (as long as they meet safety requirements)

More About Vendors

Helpful Wedding Planning Guides

Bent Oaks Wedding Weekend FAQs

What is the maximum guest capacity?

Up to 40 guests for an indoor sit-down dinner, 75 guests for an indoor only cocktail reception, or 120 guests with use of the outdoor space.

Will we have access to the entire property during our reservation?

Yes, Bent Oaks Manor offers exclusive use of the entire property during your wedding weekend reservation time (except two small staff rooms), ensuring flexibility and personalized service for you and your guests.

Are there any restrictions on decorations or event setup?

While Bent Oaks Manor allows personalization of all event spaces, certain restrictions on may apply to preserve the historic integrity of the property. It's recommended to discuss specific decoration plans with the venue's event coordinator.

Does Bent Oaks Manor provide in-house catering services?

While Bent Oaks does have a fully equipped kitchen, we do not have a designated food service staff. You may choose any catering company you prefer (as long as they meet our vendor requirements) or you can choose one of our preferred vendors.

What about other vendors like planners, bartenders, DJ's?

As with catering, you can either choose your own vendors (that meet our liability requirements), or go with one of our preferred vendors (with a discount of course!)

Is your outdoor space covered?

The stone-paved courtyard behind the main house is shaded by our giant oak trees, and can accommodate a tent large enough to seat up to 50 guests. Tent rental is an additional fee.

Gallery

Request Your Date

Important Wedding Weekend Information

VA Sales tax will be added to total
A 25% non-refundable deposit is required to reserve your date. Additional payments made 6 months and 3 months prior to event date.
$1,000 refundable security deposit due 30 days before check-in date (paid via cash or check only).
The security deposit will be returned within 14 business days of the event per no damages to the property
Cash, checks, money orders, Venmo and debit/credit cards are all accepted
Event liability insurance (~ $100) is required for wedding receptions - If serving alcohol, Host Liquor Liability must be added
An ABC banquet license (~ $55) will be required for wedding receptions serving alcohol
A rental agreement must be signed for your event weekend
Outside vendors welcome; caterers, bartender, and planners must be licensed and insured
There is a two night minimum on weekend packages. No exceptions. Additional nights can be added!
Receive a discount if you also book the wedding shower at Bent Oaks Manor